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How Couples Benefit From Sexual Fantasy | HuffPost

Read our simple five point suggestions on how to use your imagination to keep the flame alive.

How Couples Benefit From Sexual Fantasy By Thea and Duane Harvey Sex is an act of the imagination, and in committed romantic relationships imagination often is the first thing to wear out. Romance requires novelty and fantasy. The process of falling in love is the invention of the person we’re getting to know. There is always a bit of projection in romance. We take a few positive details and spin the rest in our minds. If we’re smart we never stop doing this. Here’s some tips to help re-cultivate the fantasy and re-circulate passion.

Pretend your partner is perfect. Strange as it may seem, it works. (read more here....http://www.huffingtonpost.com/thea-and-duane-harvey/sexual-fantasy-benefits_b_3379710.html)