Foot Caress Meditation: Step 3

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Foot Caress Meditation: Step 3

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The hardest working part of the body is the foot. It is the weight-bearing servant of nearly everything we do. Washing of the feet is a religious rite in some spiritual traditions. The foot is considered erotic in many cultures, yet because it is free of an overt sexual association, it is one of the surest paths to seduction. With 7,000 nerve endings a piece, the foot responds to the slightest touch with spine-tingling pleasure. The value we place on our feet can be seen in the 23 billion global footwear market. The average American pays $1,050 a year for their shoes and that figure doubles for women who receive pedicures. The foot caress meditation is the perfect way to show our partner how much we value who they are and everything they do. You will need lotion or oil for this meditation. Have it readily accessible and rub between your palms before applying to the skin.

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These seven meditations are designed to guide you through the progressive stages of physical connection, beginning with safety and relaxation to heightened phases of erotic arousal. After taking time and taking turns to complete each step, we are confident you and your partner will no longer view sex merely as something you occasionally do, but rather as a source of generating creative energy. What we offer is a concrete and time-tested tool to increase desire and establish an ecstatic foundation for healing trauma and restoring connection.

General Instructions

This is a special time to be with your partner and permit yourself to be expressive and sensual. Although these caress meditations can be done in any order, we recommended that you initially practice them in sequence. Decide who is going to be the active partner and the receiving partner. Afterward, you will switch roles. Create a soothing environment that establishes safety and deep relaxation. Dim the lights, draw the curtains. Silence your phones, lock the door. Set aside at least 30 minutes with the option to take longer if the meditation launches you into deeper exploration. At the end of each turn, take a moment to share your impressions and feelings. Refrain from criticism, sarcasm, or judgment, even if your partner did not follow the guided instructions exactly. Meditation is not about doing it perfectly. Erotic arousal is a type of hypnotic trance of heightened vulnerability. Speak kindly while occupying this tender space. Tactfully explain what you did and did not like. Be specific. Use descriptions such as ticklish, comforting, hot, cold, silky, coarse. Take turns speaking and listening just as you took turns receiving and giving touch.

This meditation was adapted from “Touching for Pleasure: A 12 Step Program for Sexual Enhancement,” by Adele P. Kennedy and Susan Dean, Ph.D. The music is by Chris Collin, [http://indiemusicbox.com][0] We hope you enjoy it.