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They hadn’t had sex in eleven months. As Aubrey and Nate sat across from one another in my office, the absence of intimacy felt almost tangible—like a heavy weight pressing down on both of them and the space between them. Though they had been married for six years, the ease and warmth that once connected […]
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Peter and Hannah, a sophisticated, attractive couple, in their early thirties, living in Brentwood, sought marriage counseling. Married for three years, they described themselves as close and loving but struggled with recurring fights about household responsibilities. Peter, a graduate student pursuing his MBA at UCLA Anderson School of Management, had an easy, approachable demeanor, while […]
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We’ve all been there—flooded with rage, muscles tight, seeing red. Something your partner says, does, or fails to do sparks a conflict, and suddenly, the interaction escalates. Emotions take over. Physically and neurologically, your body shifts into a state of fight, flight, or fawn. In this heightened state, you lose the ability to respond relationally. […]
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In May 2021, I wrote a widely read piece called The Art of the Handjob, inspired by tips I learned from trailblazing sex educator Amagine. Three years later, I’ve yet to give attention to an equally essential subject: the vulva – and the endlessly creative ways to please it. Let’s explore the beautiful, complex landscape […]
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